Those third party people engrossed themselves into relationship is begging off outcome on their part. I really hate it when I heard such issues (knowing that I’ve experience the creepy-crawly situation of the third party disturbance people…). But I am not the one who’s involve on the issue then, it was my cousin who’s in situate.
So there I was right in the middle of a confrontation – reacting just the way I told myself I would not react! My thought was carefully out of conscious centering gone out the back door as anger and annoyance develop by the second. As I left the relations, the first thought that went through my mind was “well, that went bad.”
This state of affairs happened a week ago, in order to lessen the conflicts. The mother of my cousin and I went into confrontation to the girl who’s involve. With a calm and right manner of negotiating the young woman just cried knowing her faults.
I expected this person to act that way. I knew that she would be in the position to allow us to feel attacked and go into “reaction mode.”, but she was disappointed for we aren’t that type. So, when I look back at it all, it’s no surprise that things turned out the way we want it. She spoke his sorry and paid her dues for being the victim of the situation, for some causes. And now, everyone’s in peace and unruffled feeling. It’s what I expected to happen, after all.
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